“The middle is messy”, Brené Brown speaks of the grit of our processes, “but it’s also where the magic happens.”
Honestly for me the middle is often times frustrating.
As I sat on the dock tonight, drinking a beer, and brain dumping on to my journal pages, I noticed the dock needed some work. My mind wandered over thoughts of pressure washing it, building a new bench table, staining the dock. Of course, I realistically reeled my thoughts in. I am just a renter. Then I recalled shamelessly, the countless other projects I have yet to finish.
Once upon a time, that dock was not there. All there was in that space was marsh and open water. No rusty worn out bench, no place to tie off a crab pot, no lights, no piles to hammock from. The dock did not appear out of nowhere. One day nonexistent, then next inviting to be ventured out on.
There was a middle.
Building a dock is quite the undertaking. You are placing piles into ewwy gooey pluff mud. This alone takes the right machinery and for most people, the right skilled technician. Then there is the carpentry behind each and every board, the electrical behind the switches and the lights, and the list goes on. Even before any of this, there has to be approval from the “gods of the local tidal ways”.
Sounds perfectly straight forward. Easy. One days planning, one days work. Absolutely not!
Sounds a lot like most of my seasons. There is work. There are zigzag patterns I walk. I hit obstacles. I want to give up, but the vision keeps pushing me forward.
As you and I wrestle in this season, may we remember the middle is messy. May we take a step outside our situation for just long enough to see that there were other seasons. We entered and left those seasons, but between the beginning and the end there was an emotionally charged middle.
If we can get that perspective the frustration, the negativity, or whatever else we may be experiencing is transformed into forward moving hope.
May we have the strength and courage to walk out the middle with confidence, faith, and security.
He is good. He is for us. He will deliver us. He is waiting for us to ask: “God what are you doing right here in this moment”.